They are Canadians

It was on friday afternoon, 23rd July 2010. That day is the last day me and friends get around in Beijing. Because the day after tomorrow we are going back to our beloved Country, Indonesia. So, after our friends has been leaved China on afternoon, 23rd July. My friend asked to me to get around in Beijing for the last time. I have no reason to reject it. So that after lunch, we went to Beijing. As usual, we are used bus 930 which bus bring us from Sanhe to Beijing.

While listening my favourite music in my MP3 player, I'm looking for the highway of Beijing, took some pictures in bus, hehe.. :D yeah, I did it to record my last traveling in China. During in the bus, I saw so many people not only Chinese but also other people with black skin, curl hair. I guess, they are foreigners in China. It seems they look like confused and hesitated. But I just saw them, I don't have any idea to say hello or some words to them.
After our bus arrived in Dawanglu station in Beijing, as expressively I said "go, go, go!" why I said like that? So many people want to getting off from bus in Dawanglu station, cowded and jostled. Maybe the foreigners heard that I spoke English (go, go, go). After we get off from bus, the foreigners said to me; You speak English? Yeah, I said. And he shows his handphone to me, and I saw some Chinese character ”呵呵。。“。He asked me to translate that words into English. And I know a little Chinese character, as directly I told to him; it means, "hehe.." your friend laughing on you, said me to him. O yeah? Hahaa.. thank you, thank you! answered him to me while laughing. Then he said to me, your English is very good. I just smile to him, hehe.. 8)

And then, it's my turn to ask him a few questions. I asked him, what is your name, where are you come from, and something like that. After I already knew their names, they are Canadians and come to China just for business. Then I introduced my self and my friend to them, we are Indonesians, come to China for study in one power plant. After heard my explanation that I'm Indonesian he said to me "APA KABAR? SUDAH BERAPA LAMA DI CINA?". Wow, surprised! Did he spoke Indonesian? Said me in my heart!? Great, you can speak Indonesian man, your Indonesian is very great. Said me to him. Yeah, I have been in Indonesia. My wife and my baby are Indonesians. Awesome!!! Nice to heard that.

Then, we took some photos, giving phone number each other also email address. After that, I continue our traveling with my friend, get around in Beijing. They are Mark and Jeff! Glad to know you guys, see you later! I'm so proud as Indonesian because I have so many friends not only in my hometown but also in China, Canada, Pakistan and Arab. Alhamdulillah, that's all because God blessing. Thanks God, to gave me so many friends in the world.

NINETEENTH YEAR OF MY LIFE

I wrote this on the day of 19th year of my life. I thought that my 19th birthday wouldn't be complete if I didn't write this. Maybe this note will show you little bit of my mellow side.
I was born in a small hometown in the South Sumatera, Lahat city. I'm person with nothing, I was born with all my imaginations and my dreams. And I just realized that I am 19th years old now and I'm still alive it makes me think that I have something and I want to thank for it.

Maybe this is the first time any of you reading about me saying thanks to Something or Someone up there, who gives me a lot of blessings or even the smallest luck that I never realize, thank you.
I would like to say thank you very much to God. Who gave me chance to always improve my self, gave me health until now. Thanks to my parent, even they were having hard time. They always tried to give me the best they could, to teach me about the world. Thanks to my mom who always encourages me with her endless love. Thanks to my dad, always work hard for me and my family. Even when He is old enough. Mom and Dad I will keep my oath to make you happy and proud that I AM YOUR SON! Please wait a little bit longer for me, I'm on my way. Yes, I'm on my way. Thank you!

For my older brother I know that you have a lot of pressures from dad because you are the oldest one. But don’t take it personally, bro. You can share it with me. I know that you always try to protect me and old sis. But now we are old enough to handle anything. So you can share it to me. Thanks for holding it for so long, and I’m sorry for my childish behaviour back then. Thank you!
For my older sister, hi sis. You are the cutest older sister that I have. It makes me want to protect you and makes you happy forever! Thanks for protecting me in front of Mom and Dad back then, when I still wanted to just go out and play, thanks for your effort. Thank you!

When I was in my junior high school, thanks to my friends, Rendra, M.Dedi, Deddi, Budi, Jupi, Andri, Cecep, Nanda, Seven, Joko, Eem, Angga, Arief, Yenny, Yani, Weny, Tri, Putri, Jean, Dessy. And another friends that I’ve forgotten (I’m really sorry about this). Thanks mates, you guys really mean a lot to me. You had taught me about friendship, cared for me when I was down. I don’t know how to repay you guys, I am not far from you guys. I will go and search for something that, maybe, one day I can share it with you guys. Hug you all and say "thanks a lot". Thank you!
When I was in my senior high school still thanks to Danu, Aan, Leo, Yandi, Yadi, Ari, Nurman, Deky, Jhon, Dery, Aprianto (Viko), Aulia, Dody, Jemmy, Arwanto, Azwar, Sadik, Candra, Imam, Pratama (Ucok). You guys really inspired me. You guys really meaningful for me, that had helped me a lot, made me learn something new that I couldn’t even imagine before. The knowledge you guys gave to me is very useful up until now. Thank you!

And when I was intership in the 3rd grade of my senior high school still thanks to Aziz, Heri, Erdisi, Hartoni. You guys are very meaningful for me. You had taught me about friendship, taught me a lot about patient and tough. We were learnt, felt the happiness and sadness together. Every second of our conversation is my treasure up until now. Thank you.

When I started to walk on my new path, following the job training after graduated from senior high school. I will never forget my friends who walked beside me, Danu who always supported me, when I was down, you always gave me spirit and motivation. Always beside me when I need. Time runs so fast. It makes me unable to remember everything that happened. But you CARVED something in my heart. Also for danu's family for your kindness. Thank you!

Thanks to my private teacher, Meddie and family. Meddie's parent, Keken, Indah. I know guys, you had taught me a lot not only technology but also the most important things are familiness and kindness. Thanks for meddie's dad, accompanying me when I came to your house upset and feeling down. You always support me. Always. Keep telling and reminding me that I am still an immature boy, and I need to learn more. You really try to cheer me up whenever I feel rejected by the whole world, for the laughters that we laugh together. Those mean a lot to me. Thank you!
Thanks a lot for my English teachers, Ms.Candra, Ms.Dian, Ms.Dwi, Ms.Diah, Ms.Ratih and Ms.Yessy. You really have helped me a lot. You had taught me a lot. I still remember at the first time, I even can't speak English well. Thanks for your motivation and kindness. Happy fire! Thank you!

Thanks a lot for my new partner in company, Bang Irfan, Alan, Theo.Oc, Theo.Al, Seto, Jumaidi, Arie, Ari, Fino, Richard, Sandy, Iyas, Indra, Heru, Arif, Vico for always supporting me during training. The smiles, memories, happiness, craziness, support, and all story that we've made. I learn a lot from you guys. Although we come from different area but now we are one. Together we will take a new brighter future. Light the world with electricity. Thank you!

To Mas Didik, Bang Sofyan, Mas Made, Mas Rangga.W, Ko Welly, Bang Nain, Bang Wisnu thanks for your encouragement, thanks for your kindness, thanks for treating me as your own brother. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with me. Thank you!
To Chinese Moslems in China that I've met. Ust.Imam Sholeh, Ust.Yusuf with his wife and his son (Ali), Ust.Abdurrahman (I'm sorry I don't remember the Chinese name) and all of Moslems that I've met that I can’t write all the names here. I'm very pleasure to know all of you. For the smiles, warmest hug, pray, kindness, gifts, sweet stories. You had taught me a lot. You always gave me the best that you could. When I got sick, you tried to consoled me with the medicine, food and pray. Together we shares same feelings, stories and dreams. I don’t know how to repay it. I will always keep you in my heart. Although we've separated by distance between Indonesia and China but I wish all of you in good health, may Allah give me chance one day to meet all of you again in the future. Amin. Xiexie ni men!

To Mr.James thanks for your kindness during we study in China. Smile and laughter together. You really inspired me to study more and more. Chinese often said, hao hao xuexi tian tian shang shang. Study well and make a progress everyday. Xiexie!

And of course, thanks to myself for all the blood and tears shed along this long road. Thanks for the undying energy burning within, through the coldest of winter in China, survive for a several months in other place of the world and stayed away from home. It's time to make a new plan for the future! Thank you, me!

And for my ex-girlfriend..
Nurhayati: Thanks for all the memories that you gave me as my 1st girlfriend. Thanks for the good and bad that happened between us. Hope that you’re happy. Thank you, Nur..

For all the girls that have come into my life, girls.. all of you gave me a lot of new things to learn. Marita Indriyani, Indah, Yuni, Yuli, Yulia, Yoanda, Aini, Yessy, Dwi, Yilin, Tong Jin Yu, Ming, Hui. For the adventures, smile, and sharings. Thank you!

Thanks for all those things, I want to say I'M VERY LUCKY to have you in my life. Thanks. Everything you have given to me. Thank you guys, thank you! And in the 19th year of my life, I will keep walking with all the things from you guys. And I will survive. I AM PROUD THAT I HAVE YOU AS MY FRIENDS. Now it's my turn to make you guys PROUD that you have me as your friend. Thank you!

Is she your Girlfriend?

Before I begin my writing, I want to ask a question. Do you have a girlfriend? Hehe.. I’m sure some of you already have a girlfriend right? :D Nowadays some people said “girlfriend can make you feel comfort, she can make you feel happy when you sad, and she can understand you”. Yeah, everyone has own opinion about girlfriend. Including me. For me, girlfriend is someone who make your heart feel calmdown, with her words, with her smile and so on. I’m sure some of you ever make a relationship with girlfriend more than one or two times right! hehe.. :D it’s normally happened, because when we felt unconveinient with girlfriend, and your girlfriend didn’t care about you anymore, or girlfriend didn’t love you anymore so both of you decided to broke your relationship. Then, you find the other girlfriend in outside. Am I right? Because my brother said Don’t worry so many girls in the world! broke one, grow one million. Hahaa.. :D I like that words. Here, I want to tell you about my first experiences when I made a relationship with my ex-girlfriend.
It was happy with her. Her name is Nurhayati, she was born on January 1992. Actually she's younger than me. But, it's ok! She's the only one in her family without brother or sister. When she was 2nd grade of senior high school, unfortunatelly her mother was passed away. So, it makes she's so depressed. However, me as her boyfriend always entertain her with my words and my love.
Our story between me and her are very short. Because, after graduated from senior high school. She decided to continue study to the university, but me not yet continue my study. My family have problem in financial. So that, I decided to earn money and follow the job training. Since that was happened, we seldom meet each other like a few months ago. When we're still in senior high school.
After several months following the job training, she said to me to broke our relationship without any reason. Based on her statements "I'm too kindhearted. Actually she's lying on me, because when she want to broke our relationship she's only supposed me as her BEST FRIEND not as boyfriend during that relationship. Oh my God! How could it be?
I only laughing loudly when I remember that story, hahaaa.. :D maybe I'm so handsome, so it makes her always nervous whenever beside me so she decided to broke up! Hehe.. 8). Yeah, no problem guys. That's normally happened. Thanks for all the memories that you gave me as my 1st girlfriend. Thanks for the good and bad that happened between us. Hope that you’re happy. Thank you, Nur.
Now, I'm looking for a new girlfriend. With new specification, handy, futuristic and so on! Hehe.. :D yeah, that's all about my ex-girlfriend. Maybe you can share your story with your girlfriend to me. Ok guys! Thank you!

It was unbelievable and incredible!

Before I tell you much about my experience that I want to write in my blog. Let me tell you about someone first. To make you clear what's my purpose in my blog. Her initial is 'MI'. I knew her, when I were in China. At the first time when I made an account on facebook, I added all people that I met on facebook without thinking whether that people I know or not. And then, I have many friends on facebook. After that, I often chatt or comment with all my friends on facebook. Upload some photos, notes, status or something like that.
After a several months, I made an account on facebook. I met someone on facebook, she's girl, she's Indonesian, pretty good and her intial is 'MI'. Of course she's human, hehe.. :D. We often chatt to know each other, share some experiences or even make a joke. From facebook we moved to Yahoo Messenger which application special for chatting on internet. And from YM we often made a video call or voice call. Yeah, that's all we did to know much each other.
Then, on 25th July 2010 has come. All of us back to Indonesia. Before I leaved China, I told to her, I said; 'It will be better if we meet each other in one place after I'm back to home later' and she said 'yeah, we'll meet each other if I still alive' while joking with me, hehe.. :D I only laughing in my heart when she said like that! Then I said; 'I hope you still alive when I arrived in my home later'. After one week I haven't keep in touch with her, I've sent some messages to her on facebook, I asked her to meet in one place which place we've agreed to meet. And she has agreed. It was 7th August 2010 I went to that place. Actually, I want to bring motorcycle but unfortunately I haven't driving license card yet. So, I decided to go there by bus. I told to her, that I will go there by bus and she said; I also don't have motorcycle, are we really use on foot to get around? It's up to you! For me, it's fine or even CRAWLING I'll do it! Hehe.. :D, she said while laughing. Oh my God! It was AWESOME! I never meet someone especially girl have said sentences like that! Unbelievable!
After a few hours through bus and waiting, I arrived in that place and finally I saw her with my own eyes. Yeah, glad to saw her! Do you know what will happen next? We are really use on foot to get around in that place. It's almost same what did I've done when I were in China! INCREDIBLE! I know, she's very shy, because she told me, it's the first time to get around with me by on foot. Hahaa.. :D yeah I know that but I try to enjoy that situation with her. And we used 'Ojeg' to pick us up went to BA park. It was beyond my imagine, I have nothing words to tell you how crazy I'm with her at my first date! We did a silly behave that never ever did for people like us. After get around, much talk with her I decided to go back. It's going to rain and I said to her 'nice to meet you!'. Bye-bye.
So guys, it's very important for all of you. If you want to date with someone the most important thing is you should have a DRIVING LICENSE for your personal safety then the policeman will not stop or take your motorcycle because you haven't a driving license. Or you will have the same experiences like me! Hehe.. :D